Sunday, February 26, 2012

Reunions: More Fun in ZaNorte (HS Edition 2)



[ Ten  light-hearted tips for surviving a school reunion


1. RSVP: Classmates who are volunteering their time, effort and sometimes money in advance need to know how many people come for the food and then money for deposits and other expenses. Do not intend to show up without RSVPing.   

2 . Contact old friends before the reunion: Take this opportunity to reconnect with old friends. It is easy to lose touch with people through the years, the use of the meeting as an excuse to rekindle those friendships. Contact them to catch up and make plans to meet them at the meeting.
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3. Offer to help: Most meetings are the result of volunteers from the class celebrating. Offering to help with decorations, food, and entertainment is a great way to reconnect and create a positive relationship with classmates who organize the event.
 
4. Dress comfortably: Do not underestimate the importance of choosing an outfit that is comfortable. Many people feel pressured to dress to impress, but do consider comfort.

5. Do not drink too much: In a festive atmosphere, be aware and stay in control. Being drunk in a high school reunion setting can lead to embarrassing behavior and regret.
a very tongue-in-cheek checklist for Reunions ; )

6.  Do not say “I do not remember”: Nobody likes to be forgotten when confronted by someone who sounds familiar, greet them warmly. Chances are a few moments of conversation will refresh your memory and you will be able to place them.
 
7. Keep a positive attitude: Even if things go wrong, keep in mind that it's only one night and despite the discomfort,  you will be able to look back on it and laugh.
 
8. Be honest and modest: Do not feel compelled to lie about your accomplishments, occupation or relationships. Be honest with others and yourself. It is better to tell the truth before having others discover later that you lied.
 
9. Mingle!: Fight against the urge to stick with your old clique, even if it is comfortable. Make it a point to talk with people you have not seen since school and learn about what they do. You can always go out with your close knit group of friends, do not waste an opportunity to catch up with people you rarely see.
 
10. HAVE FUN!: Renew old friendships, make new and keep a sense of humor throughout the event. Meetings only come once a decade, you might as well enjoy it! ]








1 comment:

  1. Thanks to Dino Antonio and Evan Hope Olvis for some of the pics which I was able to find in the ZNSAT '95 Group in FB, and used in this essay-collage.

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