[ Ten light-hearted tips for surviving a school reunion
1. RSVP: Classmates who are
volunteering their time, effort and sometimes money in advance need to know how many people come for the food and then money for
deposits and other expenses. Do not intend to show up without RSVPing.
2 . Contact old friends before the reunion: Take this
opportunity to reconnect with old friends. It is easy to lose touch with
people through the years, the use of the meeting as an excuse to
rekindle those friendships. Contact them to catch up and
make plans to meet them at the meeting.
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3. Offer to help: Most meetings are the result of volunteers from the
class celebrating. Offering to help with decorations, food, and
entertainment is a great way to reconnect and create a positive
relationship with classmates who organize the event.
4. Dress comfortably: Do not underestimate the importance of
choosing an outfit that is comfortable. Many people feel pressured to dress to impress, but do consider
comfort.
5. Do not drink too much: In a festive atmosphere, be aware and stay in control. Being drunk in a high school reunion setting can lead to embarrassing behavior and regret.
a very tongue-in-cheek checklist for Reunions ; ) |
6. Do not say “I do not remember”: Nobody likes to be forgotten when
confronted by someone who sounds familiar, greet them warmly. Chances
are a few moments of conversation will refresh your memory and you will
be able to place them.
7. Keep a positive attitude: Even if things go wrong, keep in mind that it's only one night and despite the discomfort, you will be able to look back on it and laugh.
8. Be honest and modest: Do not feel compelled to lie about your
accomplishments, occupation or relationships. Be honest with others and
yourself. It is better to tell the truth before having others discover
later that you lied.
9. Mingle!: Fight against the urge to stick with your old clique, even if it is comfortable. Make it a point to talk with
people you have not seen since school and learn about what they do. You
can always go out with your close knit group of friends, do not waste
an opportunity to catch up with people you rarely see.
10. HAVE FUN!: Renew old friendships, make new and keep a sense of humor throughout the event. Meetings only come once a decade, you might as well enjoy it! ]
Thanks to Dino Antonio and Evan Hope Olvis for some of the pics which I was able to find in the ZNSAT '95 Group in FB, and used in this essay-collage.
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